The best time for new beginnings is NOW
It has always been hard for me to start something. A day, a story, a new job, a relationship, a new chapter in my life, a blog, everything. I don’t know why when it comes to beginnings I get lost. I think that’s the hardest part. The beginning. Once it started you can more or less guess what comes next or how it is going to end up. In the past couple of years I have met people who have the same fears like I do and I realized all this happens because we are afraid of failure. It is what it is – human nature. When we go out of our comfort zone we start to feel scared and doubt ourselves.
Just think about it, if you must try many times in order to succeed but you don’t try because you are afraid to fail, then you will never know and nothing will come out of it. I used to hear people finishing a piece of advice with the “Have confidence!” line but it made no sense to me because I had never had this confidence before. Then all of a sudden something happened! It was like somebody sneaked into my room while I was asleep and filled my head with self confidence. Cause that’s what everything was about and that’s basically all you need.
SELF CONFIDENCE – That’s the best outfit – rock it and own it!
Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail. Even if sometimes you don’t trust yourself, just pretend that you do and at some point, you will. Look inside you and find what you’re good at, know your value, trust your instincts and do exactly what you’re afraid to do.
Of course, confidence isn’t walking into a room with your nose in the air, and thinking you are better than everyone else, it’s just walking into a room and not having to compare yourself to anyone else in the first place- just because you are good enough, smart enough, beautiful enough and strong enough.
So here I am… Starting a new blog, a new chapter in my life, a new story filled with confidence, excitement and good vibes. Right now I am not scared anymore. I did it! I started over. It’s like I bought a new home and it’s all empty. It’s my first day in so I have to decide how I am going to decorate everything. It’s going to be simple but intimate. More like friendly, sometimes classy, even trashy. I told you before – I’m following my instincts!
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